Did You Miss the Boat? Or Did You Dodge a Bullet?
- Nico DE BONY
- 5 days ago
- 3 min read

It's one of the most testing moments for any disciplined investor. It doesn't happen during the panic of a market crash, but in the deceptive quiet that follows.
You did everything right. You followed your strategy, protected your hard-earned capital, and patiently waited on the sidelines as the storm passed.
Then, it happens. The market comes roaring back. Charts go vertical. The news is filled with stories of a "V-shaped recovery." You see people bragging about their gains, and suddenly, your responsible decisions feel like a costly mistake. You feel like you've been left behind.
The emotional whiplash from this can be more painful than the downturn you so skillfully avoided.
Watching the Sailboat from a Life Raft
A fellow investor once described this feeling perfectly: it’s like being on a sturdy life raft, safely floating, while a magnificent sailboat catches a sudden gust of wind and speeds off toward the horizon.
The sailboat looks effortless, fast, and free. Your raft, by comparison, feels slow, small, and stationary.
This feeling isn't just greed or FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out). It's a unique kind of grief—the grief of being disciplined and feeling like you were penalized for it. You begin to second-guess every move.
"I sold too early."
"I should have known it would bounce back that fast."
"Why does being cautious always cost me on the upside?"
This leads to the most dangerous thought of all: "Is protecting my portfolio even worth it?" This is the moment a disciplined strategy can unravel.
Shifting the Question: From "Why Didn't I?" to "What's My Strategy?"
With OPTI Strategies, I believe in shifting that question. Instead of looking in the rearview mirror with regret, I focus on the road ahead with a clear map. A true optimization strategy isn’t just about being "in" or "out" of the market. It's about having the right tools for the right conditions.
This is where you can take back control. Being on the "life raft" of cash isn't the only way to find safety. A modern approach gives you more options:
You can build in protection: What if you could stay in the market but use simple option strategies to act like an insurance policy? Imagine having a known, maximum loss on your positions, giving you the confidence to ride out volatility.
You can generate income while you wait: A portfolio sitting in cash does nothing. But a well-positioned portfolio can be optimized to generate income by selling covered calls, turning your waiting time into a productive, return-generating activity.
You can define your risk in advance: True peace of mind comes from knowing exactly what you stand to lose in a worst-case scenario. When you have that clarity, the emotional temptation to chase a rally you don't trust loses its power.
You're no longer just reacting. You're proactively managing risk and engineering better results.
The Unforgettable Feeling of Being Prepared
While the pain of missing a rally is sharp, it’s temporary. But the feeling of being protected during a real crash is a powerful reminder of why a strategy matters.
Remember the peace of mind that comes with:
Waking up to headlines of market panic... and feeling calm.
Seeing your account stable while others are down 20-30%.
Knowing your financial future isn't vulnerable to every market whim.
That feeling isn't luck. It's the direct result of a plan you put in place. It's the ultimate payoff for choosing strategy over speculation. That is the peace of mind we work to achieve.
You Didn't Fall Behind—You Stayed in Control
If you're feeling frustrated by a missed rally, remember this: you are not a bad investor. You are a human being navigating a system designed to provoke emotional reactions.
Let others chase the sailboats. Short-term, speculative rallies look exciting, but they often end as quickly as they begin. What you don't see are the investors who get caught when the tide suddenly turns.
Missing a rally might sting your ego. But getting caught in a crash can permanently damage your capital.
The market will always provide another opportunity, but only if you have the capital and the confidence to seize it. Your goal isn't to catch every wave. Your goal is to build a vessel that can withstand any storm and get you to your destination safely.
One rally doesn't define your success. A disciplined, optimized strategy does. You haven't been left behind; you are simply waiting for the right conditions to move forward with strength and certainty.
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